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We’re all masters at self deluding, so watch out for that. That’s the beauty of handwriting. You can’t run, you can’t hide from this frozen body language. Handwriting is  psyche in print. A person’s natural handwriting reveals a lot about the true nature of a person. What you’re looking for is right before you, if you know how to see it. 
 
The beginning stroke is pretty commonly taught in American schools. Some people make a very tiny little loop, which in our books is called jealousy. The big loop, is commonly called desire for responsibility. A metaphor I would use, you would work really hard, you may even work for free really hard, because you want the responsibility, you want people to acknowledge you, so for you, a lot of the motivation is acknowledgment, and that can be really great.

Because you will work really hard, and eventually, you will find yourself in situations of responsibility. So that can be a positive way to do that. But here is the deal. The root cause is the need to be loved by lots of people. Let’s be more efficient. Let’s just get to it. Let’s not worry if people like me or not, or responsibility, I want to be efficient.
 
What’s stopping you from achieving is you’re putting a lot of extra fluff in your life that you don’t need, 30 and it’s denying you from achieving your best because you’re wasting a lot of time and energy where you don’t need to be wasting time and energy. Drop the fluff! Drop the little lead-in stroke.

Drop anything that is unnecessary in your handwriting. Anything don’t need added into your handwriting is a bit of a stall, a bit of a bluff, it’s a bit of an insulator, it’s a block in your way. Drop it. Get rid of it.
 
Signature that is illegible begets a particular amount of arrogance, or a certain amount of speed, which says, “I don’t think I need to slow down where people can read my name. They should type my name. Because I’m too good to actually spell out my entire name, and I’m in too much of a hurry, frankly, so they’ll just have to figure it out.”
 
Every time you do that, you’re making a statement to yourself and to the rest of the world, saying, “This is me, I’m too busy for myself and for you. This is all you’re getting. Blechh.” Well, you need to slow down a little bit here, because there is a great life going on, and I don’t think people are getting the opportunities to see the best of you, if you do that style of signature.

If you change your signature, you can change and strengthen traits in your personality.
 
It also suggest to me that it could be possible signs of stress from above and below, affecting your best from being expressed at the moment. When you start to get the letters where they’re totally illegible, it’s like almost that you don’t have the energy to go out and make the letters.
 
Sometimes, you’re so clever people don’t understand what the stuff you’re going on about is. Sometimes you may be a little bit too elite, and you get bored so quickly that you just couldn’t be bothered, you think, “Unless you guys are going to stimulate me, I am up and out of here, or I’m going to stir things up and make it fun and interesting for myself.”

If you could learn to sign your name and actually show all the letters, so it’s legible, that will help you to be more authentic.
 
Sign your full name and give yourself an underline under it. What this does, it says, “I’m going to slow my life down. I’m going to take control of my life. I’m not going to allow the world to dictate to me, and I’m not going to run and make a victim of myself, reacting for the world.” You’re going to be more in charge of the world, which is a better way to be.
 
We all tend to make our signatures when we’re 14, 15, right? And we lock it in. But do we evolve? You know, we change jobs, attitudes, cars, locations, partners,
but we keep the same old silly signature which locks us into that emotional intensity of a 14- or 15-year old. Fine if you’re 14 or 15, but when you get 25, 30, 40, you want to think about changing your signature so it reflects who you are now, or who you would like to evolve into.

Your signature is your authority in the world. It’s how you see and present yourself, and every single time you do it, every single time you do it, you make a statement to yourself and to the rest of the world. So if you want the world to perceive you this way, this is how they are going to perceive it unconsciously.