Secrets of Mind and Reality - MindReality.com

People don’t see us as we are, they see what we project. What we see about others is also what they are projecting, therefore their projection is a mirror of our projection. By changing your projection, you change the reflection you get. Everything we experience in our reality is what we create. We tend to mistake projection with being, therefore we wonder why people are not reflecting our being. The truth is that our being also needs expression. Most people react primarily to your role and not your being.

The secret of pleasant and magnetic people is that they are acting their roles. Simply that, as much as you are acting yours right now. They just have a different script. We can all act a different role at will, and others will automatically react to our signals as much as we automatically react to theirs. We must learn to choose when to go with the flow and when to redirect it, depending on what level of vibration we are in. So that instead of merely reacting, we are choosing our responses and creating others’.

We are all formless beings that take on particular forms of expression. By choosing to be formless and able to change your form at will, you give yourself more choices in life. Why be attached to a particular form or forms of expression for yourself? Why not become more versatile to give yourself greater range of workability and power? People who advance very far in life have this key element of flexibility in their personality and behavioral projection. You can have more if you are able to be more unlimited.
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Everything is a mask therefore why not use a mask that is more useful and empowering? You not have to be confident when you can’t. Just pretend to be confident. Put on the mask of confidence and project it to others just to experience the kind of situation that showing yourself this way can provide. Most people put up a pretense unconsciously because they are afraid to be themselves. But you’re not doing that here, you are putting up a pretense consciously and intentionally to create a response.

If you find yourself feeling afraid every time you had to introduce yourself to strangers, you could be having mental pictures in your mind about someone being afraid to approach strangers. You’re probably not even conscious of it. Change to having images of someone being confident and easily relating with strangers like they are close friends, and being so comfortable and liberal with the appreciation they give. You will find your subconscious mind produce positive behaviors that change your interactions.

We are naturally attracted to those who make us feel good, important and at ease. The magnetic individual has the innate ability to make anybody feel good and important in any situation. Think about those that serve you with such at attitude. It takes a person of higher Beingness and consciousness to treat others with unmerited favor, honor and appreciation. Go out there and smile to people, treat everybody you meet as if they were the most special people you ever knew. Their response will amaze you

People like to be treated well, with kindness and respect. The ability to make people feel good and important, this characteristic is like a magic want that can open all doors. Treat people the way you would like to be treated. Do not keep anyone out of this golden rule no matter if it is the cleaner down the street, the waitress who serves you or the president of your company. They are all equal. See the divinity in anyone you meet. Treat everyone so nice and warmly that they have no choice but to like you.

People need leaders to impulse them into taking action. Let go of the fear of approaching others and asking for what you want. Confidence is the essential trait of a human magnet. Don’t worry about other people’s opinion and do not be needing their approval in order to act. People like those who can make decisions for them. It does not matter if the decision fails to produce the desired results. What matters is that the person takes risks and moves forward fearlessly. Release your own resistance to acting.

Magnetic people don’t like to wait or rely on others to move ahead and act. They take the initiative and seek for whatever it is they desire. Be the leader by having the guts to take initiative. In a social situation, a magnetic person does not hesitate to approach others, start a conversation or expose her viewpoint. In business situations, she has the courage to state her opinion, ask for opportunities and present her product or services with confidence and enthusiasm. Choose to create reality rather than to wait.

There is nothing more contagious than enthusiasm and a passion for life, a project or a purpose. A motivated and enthusiastic person can convince others to do almost anything. This is one of the secrets of the super salesperson. We love to be around passionate and enthusiastic people because they lift our emotional vibration and state of consciousness. Enthusiasm is energy transfer. Such a person can make a company prosper or turn a losing team into champions simply by spreading his enthusiasm.

It’s not what you say but how you say it according to your voice tone, body language and facial expression. That’s the reason why in social situations, people might be talking about mundane and seemingly unimportant stuff, but yet they can have a lot of effect on others. Even if you have the most intelligent things to say, people would not know it if you keep to yourself because you think they’re not qualified. You could say the stupidest things with the most positive attitude and still get great responses.

We are all mirrors of one another. How people relate with you is a reflection of how you’re projecting yourself to them. There are people who seem to attract mistreatment everywhere they go. If you experience being treated poorly, pay attention to how you are treating others. Are you aloof, unresponsive and unnoticing towards some people some of the time? Do not expect others to change first, but change the way you project yourself. You can be perceived in a totally different way just by acting differently.

Everything offers a vibration. The clothes you wear, the car you travel in, your body language, your voice, your physical appearance, your expression, your emotional state, your mental activity, all of these from the outer to the inner, are layers and components of vibrational content. This is why changing each of these things can change the way others in your environment respond to you. People are responding to the vibration that you offer. What they perceive and respond to depends on the depth and range of their vibrational senses/sensors. When you communicate on the same wavelength they are on, this is what is meant by speaking their language.[/hidepost]